The Strategy for Maintaining the Marriage Household with Long-Distance Relationship of State Civil Apparatus at the Regional Office of the Ministry of Religious Affairs of Gorontalo Province

Authors

  • Titin Samsudin Sultan Amai Institute of Islamic Studies of Gorontalo, Indonesia
  • Siti Anjarwati Sultan Amai Institute of Islamic Studies of Gorontalo, Indonesia

DOI:

https://doi.org/10.35673/al-bayyinah.v5i2.1784

Keywords:

strategy, household integrity, marriage, long-distance relationships, state civil apparatus.

Abstract

Long-distance marriage is a phenomenon that usually occurs for reasons such as work reasons. This study aims to examine the long-distance marriage of State Civil Apparatus (ASN) at the Regional Office of the Ministry of Religious Affairs of Gorontalo Province. This research is field research that presents a narrative, descriptive description of the informants with a normative, juridical and sociological theological approach. This study used primary data sources and secondary data. Data was collected through observation, in-depth interview, and documentation for further analysis. The research findings show that the long-distance marriage between Civil Servants in the Regional Office of the Ministry of Religious Affairs of Gorontalo Province is maintained with several strategies, including; good communication, open attitude, honesty, trust, setting the intensity of meetings, fulfilling a living (outwardly and spiritually), being responsible, finding solutions to every problem faced and strengthening and understanding religious values. The implication of the finding is that it can be a reference or reference for people who are undergoing long-distance marriage as a solution in maintaining the integrity of the household.

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2021-11-12

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Vol. 5 No. 2 (2021): Al-Bayyinah

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